Friday, January 16, 2009

Why is it always the best that leave us?

Why is it always the best that leave? the one's that get offered scholarships before they're 16, the one's that you never see frown, the ones that make you feel as though they are you're best friend, the ones that live life to the fullest, the ones that love all things and live with passion and hope in everything good, the ones that you will miss the most, the ones that could and would have done so much with their future, the ones that have touched your life so greatly that you didn't even realize it till they were gone.

I recently lost an amazing friend. Meg Pysnak was one of the smartest most amazing friends I have ever had. It's amazing how one moment she was there talking to me and the very next day she was gone. We had made plans to hang out soon and do crazy funny things, she always gave me the best hugs, hugs that I won't forget. I will always admire how she was never sad about anything, worked for the success and happiness she will always deserve. she was a girl who loved everyone, and touched each person she met. I will always call her one of my best friends. We never did hang out but whenever i was with her she always made my day. It was impossible not to love Meg. I will never forget her infectious smile, and the way she was always laughing. I can only hope to achieve as much as she did and hope to have the same amazing attitude she always had.

I wonder how so much greatness can be packed into a girl who only just turned 15. How can someone that amazing can be taken away from so many that love them, even if it's only for a little while. I think there are reasons, I just don't know or understand yet. but i'm not gonna lie those reasons better be some dang good reasons. One thing is certain we won't have to worry about those we lose and deffinitely not amazing Meg. We always said she would be the one to discover the cure for cancer and say it was no big deal. I'm sure she would have achieved great things here on earth but I know that she will now acheive even greater things as she spends her days bouncing on clouds and flying with angel wings and continuing to touch our lives and others in all that we remember about her.

Those we lose we will always remember and hold close to us. I will never forget Meg and can't wait to see her again.

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

Shanna, you don't know me. I am Meg's older sister. I accidentally came across your blog, and when I read your post I started to cry. Thank you for these beautiful words. I miss Meg so much...I lost more than a sister I lost my best friend. But I can see that it was a great loss to you as well. Let's keep her memory alive by saying "hi" to everyone we pass. You might want to check out her website
http://sayhiformeg.wordpress.com/ it goes along with what you said about her. Again thank you so much.

Melissa